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Just Sad..

KourtneyHart
KourtneyHart
Feeling so down right now cuz I keep thinking about the things that have happened recently & feeling bad about myself cuz I've been overeating & being lazy...
Rman
Rman
Chin up...tomorrow is a new day. It does suck sometimes...a whole lot for me and I damn sure stumble and do shit that is not good for me...i.e. - self medicating...Once again...tomorrow is a new day. Maybe try to wake up with a goal to stay positive. It gets easier...
lostsoul72
lostsoul72
I agree with Rman. We all have off days and stumble at times. That is when a good friend to lean on helps a lot.
Just keep moving forward and soon you will realize that what you felt will be a distant memory. :)

Hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user
Kourtney, you are contending with a lot, a selfish STBX and his Baby Mama and the process of divorce. It's a step by step process when we grieve the loss of a marriage. Give yourself a grieving period, what's happening is normal. You will get better. Each day you will become stronger and better and will improve. We are human and it hurts to be betrayed and it is normal to feel as you feel.

Journal your feelings, vent to yourself, to a pillow, to the mirror, but let the hurt out and don't internalize it.

I know as mothers we think we are suppose to stay strong for the kids and keep functioning at a high level, but the truth is, we just can't be Superwoman all the time...it isn't how God made us.