Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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rose77 05/05/2010

I got the call from from my attorney today I am divorced the papers are in the mail. I was waiting for the papers and I knew when I got them I would feel bad, but I did not know she was going to call me. I guess its good, I am more prepared to see it in writing. In the mood I have been in lately I am not sure yet how this is effecting me because I was feeling bad anyway. Its for the best I know this is the only outcome that it could be because I could not live the way I was anymore.

deleted_user 05/05/2010

it is hard to see, but it can motivate you to move forward, too.. it did for me. hugs!!

deleted_user 05/05/2010

Another chapter finished. Now you start writing a new one all about you. Make it great!

trisha9054 05/05/2010

Yes, you have a whole new life ahead of you. I think I may frame mine and put them where I have to see them everyday.

The incentive to get me moving towards a new and better life.

I know you will make this new life you have been given the best you can.

deleted_user 05/05/2010

Huge hugs to you. In the end, it is only a piece of paper. Don't let it define you.

deleted_user 05/05/2010

((((rose)))) from a fellow nyer...hang in...

rose77 05/05/2010

Thanks to you all for your support. I am going to try to take this as an end of a life that really was not pleasant and think of it as a better future. I guess it just kind of smacks you in the face with oh it really is over. I just need to keep remembering that this is what I needed to do to take me and my kids out of a unhealthy situation. Again to you all thanks.

deleted_user 05/05/2010

Yes, I'm sure it will be hit for me too. Like you though I couldn't have gone on living the way I was. It was the only option. My very best to you as you start fresh!

lycesq 05/05/2010

Rose - don't be surprised if you feel a little sad but you'll feel better soon and you do have a new (and better) life ahead.

Big hugs,

Lynne

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