Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I've been going back and forth with my emotions with my breakup which occurred almost a month ago. I've gone from acceptance to depression in the course of three weeks.
A little background to my story, after she graduated from college this past spring, I moved in with her for the summer in NYC to complete my film internship until I had to move back home to continue my college studies.
Before the summer she lived with me off and on for two years. She was constantly in my life, texting, calling, watching movies on FaceTime since we couldn't always physically be together, since I went to a different university then she did. And then suddenly, when we started living together she became someone I did not know anymore. I found a tumblr page with her sending lingerie photos to a 40+ year old woman who had no photos of herself so I'm pretty sure is probably a catfish but who knows! (Btw my ex is bisexual, and I'm a transgender man)
She was participating in a group on tumblr that refers to themselves as "littles"so basically, people who want to regress and become children again. My heart sank when I found this out and I began looking through her phone to find texts to a guy who she told she was possibly not in love with me anymore. I confronted her and she told me that she still loved me and that she would stop the tumblr persona thing. And I stupidedly believed her until I found her back on tumblr again a week later. When I called her crying, we both emotionally parted ways, the last thing she said to me on the phone was "I love you." Two days later I reached out to her with the intent of getting closure and since she blocked me on every social media platform and phone, I had to text her with another number, to which she responded that she doesn't want anything to do with me, and this was the end for us, and that she wasn't happy for a long time and to leave her alone. "Maybe down the road, but not now."
This night keeps replaying over and over in my head and I can't help but wonder what we could have been like now if I didn't confront her. We had so many plans and goals, and I was in love with her for two years. I wish I could heal faster so I wouldn't be depressed and sad all the time. I just want to rid my mind of her.
If you want her back, buy her a nice Alice in Wonderland dress, white stockings and shiny black Mary Janes. Put is all in a big gift box, put one of those huge lolly pops on the top and wrap it up in pink gift wrap. Trust me, she'll be in your lap before you can say 'give me a kiss, princess'. If you ask nicely, she just might tell you all about littles and the bigs they worship. She probably really wanted with you what she found on tumbler but you didn't want to know.
I'm not messing with you, by the way. Take my advice and get your woman back.