Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi guys,
I'm currently going through a breakup. It's been a month. She broke up with me because she was emotionally drained and no longer saw a future for the both of us. We were together for 3.5 years, met in high school and shared so many experiences together. I was blindsided. I knew we had issues but I didn't know how bad it had gotten. She was never really good at expressing her emotions, something I tried to help her with. I offered couples counseling to her but she was not interested. I asked her if she was still in love with me. She told me if she was being honest, that no. We had became more of best friends rather than a couple. I wasn't entirely surprised but it still hurt. Is it crazy that I still hold on to hope that one day the universe will bring us back together? I reflect on everything I could've done better, things I failed to do. I know where I messed up but that can only help me grow as a person. I can no longer be with her. We cannot do the things we planned to do. I can't kiss her or hold her. I start overthinking and start wondering if she's found someone else now. I wish I could go back in time. A thought I'm sure most of us have had at some point.
You need to focus on yourself, heal your wounds, be a stronger better person.
Focus on your hobbies, your education, your work.
Dont contact her
Leave he alone to live the best life she can, if you loved her you will let her do this.
Love yourself and take care of yourself and grow in the gift of every day.
journal about your day, you will find it helps