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I have been going back and forth with my emotions for my stbx. Wondering what I should do with them.
As most of you know, I left him. I wont go into details, but the funny thing is, on this particualr day, I dont remember the feeling of hate I had being in that house with him.
I know I have to remember those feelings in order to get through this.
Well, today as he dropped off the kids, I told him I had an appointment with my lawyer this week. I asked him if he wanted me to file. No sooner had the last word come out of my mouth, he said YES.
Why do I feel ok with this? I kind of feel this sort of relief. Is it wrong for me to be feeling this way? I keep going over it in my mind, and I really think I feel ok about him saying yes so quickly!
Is this strange? Or wrong?
As most of you know, I left him. I wont go into details, but the funny thing is, on this particualr day, I dont remember the feeling of hate I had being in that house with him.
I know I have to remember those feelings in order to get through this.
Well, today as he dropped off the kids, I told him I had an appointment with my lawyer this week. I asked him if he wanted me to file. No sooner had the last word come out of my mouth, he said YES.
Why do I feel ok with this? I kind of feel this sort of relief. Is it wrong for me to be feeling this way? I keep going over it in my mind, and I really think I feel ok about him saying yes so quickly!
Is this strange? Or wrong?
Now I've run through all of the emotions and you will too no doubt but feeling relief is definitely not weird or strange or wrong.