I have been with my husband for almost 6 years now, we will have been married for 3 years in October. If we make it that long, which seems more likely not to happen. I moved out last Wednesday. It was supposed to give us some time apart to work on making things better, but it seems it's likely to become permanent. And he doesn't care. He says all the right things- "I don't want to lose you" "I'm not giving up" and so on, but he does absolutely nothing to fix anything. And then gets shocked and confused that I get so upset. I have tried to get us into marriage counseling, but he doesn't want to do that. I have tried talking to him, he will listen and say nice things but go right back to doing nothing. He has made so many promises that he does not keep. I have reached a breaking point. I have tried so hard for more than a year to keep us together but I have reached the point that I'll think of something I want to do for him and then think "why bother? It won't change anything. And it sure won't be reciprocated." Which is most likely the wrong attitude to take, but after so long of trying anything and everything I can think of with little to no success, I guess it's the inevitable outcome. It has been almost 24 hours now since I've talked to him. The first time in all the time we've been together that we've gone this long without talking. And I keep telling myself it's for the best. To just quit him cold turkey, since honestly he is like a drug to me. But it is so hard and just doesn't feel right. I have looked at my phone all day long just hoping that maybe he will miss me. Maybe he will realize that this is it, his last chance. And so many times I have picked up the phone to text him. But I know I can't. I know I need to let things take their course. Even though I am so sure that will be the end of us. Which scares me. But at the same time is almost comforting. To not have to work so hard for something that will most likely never be fixed. And I have realized over the last few days that while I miss him like crazy and have been so lonely without him, there has been some measure of peace. But at the same time it feels so wrong. We've been together for so long, been through so much together. Should I really just walk away from that? So needless to say I am feeling very lost and confused and rather hopeless right now.