Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
my ex fiance as of 2 days ago cheated on me(before we were engaged) with an ex gf while i was pregnant with our son. i was devastated. ive known him for over 10yrs and i told him before we got involoved that i was afraid he would end up hurting me and he promised he never would. the day we were suppose to go to our ultra sound i found out about her, i saw the messages of him telling her he missed her and loved her and wanted to be with her. he begged for my forgiveness, said he was drunk and didnt know what he was doing and it ment nothing. I tried to make it work, it took over a year for me to not break down everytime i heard her name or saw or heard something that reminded me of them being together. once we got past that he surprised me and proposed. saying if we could get through that we could get through anything. our wedding was suppose to be this june. and i found out a few days ago that this last year hes been doing the same thing with a different ex only worse because they were also nasty messages and she sent him naked pics and would show up at his work and borrow money. now hes begging for forgiveness again. but how can i ever trust that this isnt going to happen again? i love him, but is it enough?
The best advice I could give you is know your value. Understand your own worth. Deep down you know what you need to do. Take some time away from each other. While you do, think really hard if this is what you want and will the relationship make you happy.
If you choose to stay with him, you both have to agree to move past his cheating behavior. Without trust, there is no love, without love, there is no relationship.
I won't accept keep a cheater in my life. They break all the bonds of trust, of confidence, and they risk you getting STDs and they break apart families and impact children. SAY NO, walk away and keep walking.
You cannot. So stop trying to. ;)