I have been with my partner for 12 years, zero sex for 6 of then. She has no desire anymore for me. We have 2 kids, 6 and 9. Tried all the therapy under the sun. We both work full time with good jobs and income. I help around the house a lot, do all the cooking, great with the kids, we have a great emotional relationship but no sex. I lived in hope that doing all the things that shows her I love her the desire to be physical with me in any way would return but nothing, no hugs, kisses and no sex. We spoke about it as we have no issues with communicating. She hasn't gone off sex and is happy playing with her vibrating toys but won't let me touch her or her touching me. She just recently told me she will never have sex with me again, I'm totally devastated!! I'm ready to throw in the towel and leave. I know she is not seeing anyone else, neither am I but it's something I'm considering, I'm a good looking healthy male with a huge amount of love to give and want to give it to my partner but she has pushed me awa y. All the articles on treating a woman right will change her heart are a load of rubbish. When the desire has gone it's gone. Can anyone offer me some advice on what to do? My love language is physical tough so i feel totally unloved. Hers is quality time which I give her loads of and she says physical tough too which she gives none of. I mean really.....what is a man supposed to do!!!!!!