Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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In the gardens of memories....

girlonfire
girlonfire

In the gardens of memories, in the palace of dreams, that's where you and I shall meet. 

Dandelion
Dandelion
I'm not going to meet you there.

Not going to meet my ex-husband there either.

The only place I'm going to meet him is in court if he doesn't pay me what he owes me.

I'll be in the garden of no regrets.

Then I might take a long stroll through the meadow of freedom for good measure.
girlonfire
girlonfire
@Dandelion - Ha. It's a quote from Alice from the Looking Glass.
Dandelion
Dandelion
Yeah... I'm not a big fan of looking glasses or rabbit holes.

Waste of precious time

"Reality, what a concept"- Robin Williams
Dandelion
Dandelion
He had one heck of a life though
sjs777
sjs777
its a matter of perspective, something which time gives. when lost in the dark of the hole you can't see the strength that comes from climbing out. in time, memories are for you to own and draw upon when you're ready
girlonfire
girlonfire
@sjs777 thanks for the encouraging message. I think I was just in it for a moment and then came back out. I'm at a stage where it's not every day I'm filled with thoughts about him and trying to understand why. It's not as often now, but the lows, as fleeting and short-lived as they are, still occur. appreciate the empathetic message though :)