Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I wanted you all to know I am still alive. Its been a busy summer and I just dont seem to have much time to be on here right now.
Let me tell you about what is going on with me. Today, my stbx and I go to counseling! Can you believe this? Im looking forward to it, but know in my heart I do not want to get back with him.
The other thing I want you to know is I had applied for a scholarship for my children to go to the Catholic school here. My daughter has been going for the past 3 yrs, (I dont know how he pays the bill, but he does, and I dont ask!) And this year my son will go to full time Pre-K. I had gotten tuition assistance from the Diocese and the school, and then applied for the scholarship from the church. I was told I had to put an amount in for what I was asking. So, I decided on $1500.
Every little bit helps, right?
WELL!!! Get this! Not only did the kids get the scholarship, BUT the Priest thought $1500 was TOO LITTLE so they are giving $1500 FOR EACH CHILD!!! Isnt that wonderful! I feel so blessed today:)
Wanted to share and say hello to you all. I love you and miss you all so much. I hope you are doing well.
D
Let me tell you about what is going on with me. Today, my stbx and I go to counseling! Can you believe this? Im looking forward to it, but know in my heart I do not want to get back with him.
The other thing I want you to know is I had applied for a scholarship for my children to go to the Catholic school here. My daughter has been going for the past 3 yrs, (I dont know how he pays the bill, but he does, and I dont ask!) And this year my son will go to full time Pre-K. I had gotten tuition assistance from the Diocese and the school, and then applied for the scholarship from the church. I was told I had to put an amount in for what I was asking. So, I decided on $1500.
Every little bit helps, right?
WELL!!! Get this! Not only did the kids get the scholarship, BUT the Priest thought $1500 was TOO LITTLE so they are giving $1500 FOR EACH CHILD!!! Isnt that wonderful! I feel so blessed today:)
Wanted to share and say hello to you all. I love you and miss you all so much. I hope you are doing well.
D
And follow your heart. If you know the truth, don't hide from it.
Maybe counseling can make your transition more peaceful.
Good luck with the counseling. If you don't want to be there (and I 'in theory wanted to be there, but on my profile I acknowledge that by the time I got there (after months of begging on my part) my heart was not in it) it is still a good process to get an idea of both of your perceptions of the relationship. It is a rough experience but a real eye opener to determine if there is anything common ground for working through the relationship.
I'm so glad about the scholarship. Wishing you the best!
((((HUG))))
be honest and open?
I asked because my stbx agreed to go to counseling but she did with no intention of saving the marriage, and I went there to save it.
I like your reasoning a hell of a lot better personally.