I am - how can they be so inconsiderate to those of us that loved them unconditionally - waited on them - loved them - and put up with whatever they dished out........... FOCKERS!!!

I'm workin on it diemjs - workin at it hard!

I'm with you,they put us through enough pain without us doing it to ourselves as well
Obviously seriously dysfunctional human beings

I am so with you! As hard as this has been. I am here watching My STBX lose absolutely everything he had left in the floods in Eastern Iowa. I have not called him, despite the fact that I am concerned and I know it's Father's Day. Despite the fact that "our" house is in jeopardy. I can't worry, wonder and care about a man that showed so little care and concern for me and our deceased precious daughter. No more! Not ever!

Oh I am right there with you all! Where do they get off treating us like WE are the ones who wronged them?

What is sad, is that there are so many of us all hurting and so many who are making us hurt.

Fuck em! Fuck em all & this bullshit paperwork!!! vent vent vent

I with you, diemjs!

Time for us to stand up, BE STRONG, and TAKE BACK THE POWER!!

WOOO HOOO!!

There is power in numbers...so lets all ban together and say we aren't going to take their shit anymore!!!

Wow that felt good LOL

i'm with you all the way, i have not had any contact in 9 months, this morning i was sitting and just kept asking God, please i don't even want to have him enter my head anymore, it's done, it's over, why why why do i have to even think of him. i don't want to hurt anymore just want to keep moving on. i get lonely and thats ok, i can deal with it. but i just want to stop thinking about him at all.

I am with you. I took on so much for my STBX. I compromised just about everything I don't normally do. I did everything for her and her kids. I spent so much of my money on her and her kids..You know what I get for it...when its over... "I DIDN'T ASK YOU TO DO THAT!"...how about "Thank you"? that would have been nicer...you know? I am tired of hurting about someone that did that to me. Hurt me more than anybody else combined. I am so miserable and cannot get out of the hole...She didn't deserve what I did for her. I will not change though. When that special someone comes into my life again, I will not treat them any differently. I am considerate, kind, compassionate, polite, and a gentlemen. In the meantime, I have to suffer for awhile.

Me. I'm all over it.

i'm with you

YEAH..."I'M MADDER THAN HELL AND I'M NOT GOING TO TAKE IT ANYMORE" Quoted from that movie...oh what's the name?

I like the attitude!

d i posted that earlier...we all come in one by one by one to this site thinking we are unique..ours are different they really need the space before they come crawling back to beg forgiveness..we arent like the others..SAME FUCKING STORIES, just different baggage..fuck em all!