Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
blessed19
Well me and my ex broke up in April of 07 but still hung out after that. Still did the same things you do in a relationship but just didnt have the title anymore. Well we had a child together after that. We got into a bad argument and didnt talk for 8months. He came back saying he was still in love with me and we kind of started talking again. Then I go on myspace and find out he has a girlfriend. He has her pictures on there and pics of her children. Which are not his. This was back in july of 09 and then he wasnt going to tell me anything. I had to drag it out of him. I was so hurt. Well after that he wouldnt return my phone calls ,text,emails, nothing. It went on like that for 6months. Even when I would text him about our son he wouldnt text me back. So then in April he calls me saying that they broke up and I was the reason why. She thought him and I were messing around and we were not. She was very insecure about me. Well I was still in love with him and he told me he still loved me and we were talking again. He was starting to come around with my son. The funny part about is he told me that I wasnt supportive of him and he felt like I didnt love him anymore. So i proved to him that I loved him I did everything in my power to show him. Then about a month ago he tells me that I am getting too attached to him, Im like WHAT? You just told me that i wasnt there for you enough now im trying to be and youre pushing me away. What the fuck do you want from me. So then I back off. No calls no text no nothing I just acted like I didnt give a fuck. So then he text me after two weeks of no contact saying that "You make me so mad" i didnt answer then he text me again "You be pissing me off so bad" Im like what the hell so I text back he was like call me so I did. He tells me he misses me. Im like OMG so I just acted like i didnt give a damn. Then like three days later he text me saying that he misses the old times and the laughs and all the things i used to do. He was like why is it I love you so much. Then he was like I think you curse me cause I always end up with you no matter who I talk to. So he was basically telling me everything I wanted to hear. He talked about everything he wanted to do for our son. I was at a point that i wasnt hearing it. I dont trust anything he says for the simple fact of our history. So last night he calls me a 2am telling me he cant sleep and he wanted to hear my voice. He was like im really depressed and cant find a job. So i just listened. Then he goes into the some more crap about me being too attached to him and how I dont need to call him unless he calls me or text me. Because if he is with another girl he dosent want her mad or any drama. So im thinking there broken up well evidently there messing around again so I ask him are yall back together. He wouldnt tell me anything. He was like im not telling you. He was like I just want to make sure we are on the same page. Can you say CHILDISH GAMES. !!!! Im dealing with a different charecter i dont deserve this treatment at all. Ive been down for him since 05. I just need to move on completely!!!
deleted_user
He want the benefits of being with you without being with you, it's a vicious cycle....break it now. Cut your loses and move on.
blessed19
Very true.
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