Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just found out a week ago my wife is cheating with her best friend fiancee, she joined four seasons country clubabout 1 year ago and she’s been neglecting the house and our family, The last 2 months she’s been showing up after midnight drunk, one day I caught her talking with ‘suzanne’ at 2 oclock in the morning, when I confronted her I could hear a male voice, she ran ourside and tried to close the door but I reached and stopped her from doing it, her answer was ‘he understand me’.
the follow weekend after calling her and txt her, she didnt answer me, decided to go at the club and found her drinking in a bar with a man.! We went home, she was mad cuz’ I went to get her, find out she was texting ‘CJ’ about what happened the same night, the following weekend at 2am decided to go check on her at the club to find out she was in a motel across street, found her car parked outside.!
She told me they were just talking.! I found out the guy at the motel, suzanne and CJ were the se dude.!
Her cel is blocked, wont show me the txts and she is still coming home drunk and late.!
I just decided to divorce.! She really really swears they were just talking ina bench outside the motel, and he is just a friend.!!
I wish you the best and be strong... love yourself too.
You do have one thing going for you...
Good guys are hard to find. Remember that.
I, too, decided to give up yesterday, and in my own selfish way I am happy I found this group, because Im not alone.
I pray things get better for you.
I feel in a black hole right now, last nigh she showed up drunk at midnight talking very explicit on the phone with him, kicked out pf home since I wont have my kids listen to her nasty conversations in my house.! Told her this house is to be respected, she drove off and police stopped her few blocks from home, they told her either call a friend to pick u up or go to jail! She called her boyfriend and to a motel.!! I did wrong on kicked her out!??
Fortunately her mom has an ipad that has imessage, and she was able to read all her nasty txts to her boyfriend, her family is upset and are trying to “fix” our marriage! By putting preassure on her.! She just dont care.! At this point I just think about keeping my kids out of drama.!