Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I have been separated for a month after 25 years of marriage. He call me the weekend of Christmas and told me he has come to his sense, and wanted to come home. I told him to come on home and we will talk. He came home that weekend and everything went ok. Christmas eve he started acting weird, saying things like I came back to soon. Christmas morning I was getting things ready for us to go over to our daughter house, so we could have Christmas with our grandbaby. He acted a fool. He only spent 30 minutes with us and took off. He said he was going to go have drinks with the fellas. My daughter and I knew this was a lie. He came home that night and said he was moving back out.
This left me confused and angry. I wanted to kill that MF.
I learned that he went to his lady friend house and had Christmas with her three grow boys and grand children.
This left me confused and angry. I wanted to kill that MF.
I learned that he went to his lady friend house and had Christmas with her three grow boys and grand children.
After what he put you through on Christmas, what he said about him coming back to soon hit me in the face.
I really hope you have learned from your horrible Christmas experience and do not let him come back again. You know he will putt the same kind of stuff.
In the long run for your own sanity you may be better off going with no contact. You don't contact him and if he tries to contact you ignore him about anything except the kids. Then you can get on with your life and not worry about him. Just a suggestion.
Sending tons of support and hugs
I have learned from this, and I will take your advice and cut off all contact with him. You are right, he isn't worth killing and me losing my mind.
kid contact only and just the facts jack.
he will pull it again............and again..............and again..............
If he calls again, don't answer or just hang up. Don't waste your time. If his lips are moving, he is lying.