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I cant stand that here I sit feeling so sad because its Christmas, I just cant get into the whole happiness of Christmas. And it kills me that he probably feels nothing of this since he has so many women he can talk to make him feel good about himself and happy. I dont want this to matter, and I want to remember that I have my family and friends, and that my kids are a very big part of my life, not his. I have to concentrated on this, I dont know why this is not making me feel better. Its not that I miss him so much I guess I just miss the Christmas of past. I miss being alone and this Holiday is for family and all and I just keep remembering that on Christmas at least he was fun to be around. It was nice at that time of year to have a partner.
This time of year sucks for all of us going through this, regardless of our different circumstances... It's a very sentimental time of year & it's supposed to be cheery & fun, but when your heart hurts, all the cheer just makes it feel worse... And all the commercialism doesn't help at all.. At least that's how i feel these days.
So be easy on yourself & know that being sad right now is normal.
And try not to think about his other women if you can help it; it will only get you more down...And it's usually superficial crap anyway, as those things usually are.
(((HUGS)))
i just want to cut this whole year out of my calendar.