Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I woke up today and felt quite hopeful for my future for the first time since he dumped me.And ive also realised im begining to get angry,instead of feeling sorry for myself i now feel how dare he do this to me,He is so selfish he is only ever going to think of himself and i deserve so muc better.
When i went online lunch time he had sent me an email saying he keeps missing me on the dating site and he would try again when he wakes up.So a little later i was on the site when i checked who just browsed me it was him but he went straight offline again.Instead of getting upset that i didnt get to chat to him i just think ive had enough of this now im not even going to honour him with my time or energy.I really cant be botherd with him anymore,i hope this stays with me cause i know i will probably be back to missing him like mad but i just want to say it feels so good at the moment.
When i went online lunch time he had sent me an email saying he keeps missing me on the dating site and he would try again when he wakes up.So a little later i was on the site when i checked who just browsed me it was him but he went straight offline again.Instead of getting upset that i didnt get to chat to him i just think ive had enough of this now im not even going to honour him with my time or energy.I really cant be botherd with him anymore,i hope this stays with me cause i know i will probably be back to missing him like mad but i just want to say it feels so good at the moment.
Anger is good. Is there any way you can block him on the site?
Now for the dating site thing and all, ermm... Seriously, no contact is better...
its an exciting time!
He says he wont get back because its too much of a risk as shes already told him twice she dosent love him and chucked him out.
But whats made me really angry is he eventually told me the last time they lived together was sept/oct so that means they were only seperated for 3/4 months before we got together no wonder hes soooo messed up.He had told me they were seperated for a year.