All of you should know a little about my situation but just in case let me fill you in. I left my stbx in Nov. I left for reasons of finances and other things with us. I did not want a divorce just time on my own for awhile to see where things led. I have helped him raise his children for the last 7 yrs. He filed for divorce before I moved out of the house and is saying I was cruel to the children. He has his 3 children and I have my 2 with 3 grandchildren. Now he refuses to let me have any communicattion with the children. My daughter allows him to see the grandchildren and have a relationship with them. He owes her money for cell phone bills. I am very angry with alot of this because he can refuse me visits with his children but he still has a relationship with my children and my grandchildren. He bad mouths me all the time to his children and I am afraid of him doing this to my grandchildren. My daughter and I have gotten in several agurments about this and don't see eye to eye on it. I see her point but still don't agree. For the whole time we were together he never really paid attention to the kids. I use to say they could kill each other in front of him and he would not see it. Since I left the structure in the home is gone. The kids do what they want all the time. I'm not sure I want my grandchildren a part of this but what can I do? Any advice for this crazy situation?
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