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SarcasticAsshole 02/20/2017

i don't think I know how to properly act during a relationship!

me and this girl broke up 3 years ago and now that I'm trying to bounce back into relationships but I'm curious as to how I really went wrong! When we broke up she told me she just wanted to be alone! Like what the serious fuck does that mean!

i did everything her parents neglected! I did the absolute most to make sure that

1. She knew I cared about her 100%

2. She knew I loved her 100%

3. She knew I supported her 100%

4. She knew I'd always be there 100%

5. She knew she could come at me with ANYTHING! I'd battle any obstacle with her! 100%

SO WHY DID SHE DUMP ME OVER TEXT AND SAY "I just want to be alone!"? Aren't I like perfect girlfriend status? All I did was support, care, and be there for her? Yet I still feel like it's me that was the problem (I can elaborate on things if u need)

jll1398 02/20/2017

Is the same that happen to me just that she tell me that she never love my we have 2 years as couple and 3 years marriage and she just toolme that she wasen happy since ever that she tried but codont love me and know she at like nating happen

ceaser 02/20/2017

It's her loss, not yours. Things happen for a reason. You sound like an absolutely amazing girlfriend and anyone would love to have someone like you apart of there life. You shouldn't waste time or thoughts on people who don't want you in there life because they just don't deserve you in there life. Very similar situation happend with my relationship and I know it hurts when you did everything right but they dont appreciate it. If you need to talk and vent than feel free to message me.

Rouik 02/21/2017

Sometimes relationships just don't work out, It sounds like you were a really good girlfriend and you obviously care for them. Sometimes though we have to move on, holding on to the past and letting it get you down today isn't good for you. You may never know what exactly ended the relationship but that doesn't mean it was your fault. The other person made a choice to leave and you tried everything to make it work, be proud of that and carry it forward to your future relationships. best of luck.

Chimere78 02/21/2017

Her total loss! Every woman's desire is to be treated that way in a relationship. You will find the one. Don't give up hope in that.

bnrokenandlost 06/17/2017

maybe she did just really want to be alone, it probs wasn't you, maybe you were something her too much, it's not your fault, some peeps just need space, best thing is to talk to her, ask her if it was you and that your there to support her, then, at least it will be off your mind and you will know if it was something you did or if being in a relationship in general that was getting to her. I tend to push people away and hurt them, maybe she has issues, you never know till you ask.

bnrokenandlost 06/17/2017

smothering** (cause maybe she aint used to that much attention)

Cora_Belle 06/17/2017

From your post alone, I get the feeling you are a bit overbearing. Perhaps that is why she wanted to be alone....

Cora_Belle 06/17/2017

Oops, didn't realize the thread was so old.

SarcasticAsshole 06/22/2017

I'm still active @Cora_Belle

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