Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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teddyT123 06/05/2018

I don’t no what is what anymore. I’m in desperate need of advices.

The girl who used me as a rebound said that I was the right person but I met her at the wrong time. She said that if I was to come before her ex, she would’ve loved me forever. But I missed that chance so now she could never love me with all her heart. I don’t know what to feel anymore. Regret? Angry? Disappointed? I don’t know what to do to get rid of the pain. It’s tearing me up slowly piece by piece. I have no friend to talk to and my family couldn’t understand my emotions. What should I do? I know that men have to be tough, but I’ve been crying, curl up into a ball in the corner of my room. The good memories of her keep Crawling back into my head, followed by her “if”. I need advices. Please help me

cbhmom 06/05/2018

I’m sorry your hurting, the memories tend to make me cry too. It’s ok to cry but then pull your self together. Try to push forward more and more each day it’s really all you can do (Hugs)

Ghostwolf04 06/05/2018

My best advice is find someone who is healthy and nice next time. Dating someone with mental health problems is draining. I was messed up bad after my ex but more and more I see the version of reality he taught me actually isn't real. My current bf is really nice to me. Build your next relationship on mutual respect and make sure you both want a serious relationship. Wait at least a month before sleeping with your next gf. Rebounds and shit are weird. You don't need all that noise. Find fun things to do and be positive. This will attract a nicer girl. If you still feel messed up maybe seek a counselor or pastor.

mairbug 06/05/2018

This sucks ... I know what it’s like you think you’re on top of the world one day and then everything comes crumbling down the one person you want to give your heart to rejects it and where to go from there? Venting helps but sometimes just letting everything out all the tears all the crying all the yelling and even punching a pillow helps
It’s hard to have no one to talk to or have those super happy perky couples around you who “know what you’re going through “ ugh
Hang in there every day it heals a little more sometimes quicker other times slower but pain never lasts or ever
There is someone out there that might have gone through the same situation as you and once you find each other the world will once again make sense and you’ll know my heart belonged to this person all along and I found her ....
(GOD I hope that happens to me)

Glad2Help 06/05/2018

Men are human and cannot be tough all the time. Cry when you need to instead of keeping all of it bottled up until it explodes. But you should try to set a point and say enough is enough, I am done crying and it is time to take care of myself and take charge of my life.

Your happiness should not depend completely on another person. You should know how to be happy and content even if you are alone. This is the kind of person who makes a great partner. Try your best to enjoy life with a new scenario or surrounding. Do a bit of travel. Try to meet new people. If you have a positive outlook, physically and emotionally healthy, people will befriend you and if some new girl comes along and you will be in great shape and hopefully you'll end up in a healthier relationship

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