Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Anna2612
Anna2612

I thought that i was fine, i thougth i was getting over things but some days are just harder than some. I have not had a break down in a while and tonight im having one. I dont miss him, how could i miss a person like him he doesnt deserve that much, in fact i forgive him and all he did to me, it just hurts and it hurts so much. I need to find a job i neeed to find direction i need to find myself i cant do this anymore it so hard sometimes alone, i have lost so many friends no one to even talk to gosh how i miss my old life and self. 

Danceintherain
Danceintherain
I"m so sorry you are feeling down. Embrace it. Cry. Get it all out. Don't judge yourself. It's okay and normal to have these feelings. Once you're all cried out, play the song, I Will Survive and sing at the top of your lungs. Dance around the room. Take a bubble bath. It's going to get better. Hugs.
Mannatee
Mannatee
So sorry, I completely empathise with you. But you are strong; you said you have forgiven him so that is a huge step.. I cant do that yet. I know that I am about to lose friends and in laws that I have always got on well with and its horrible. Im .lucky that I have a job I enjoy although Im struggling to cope with it at the moment. Could you perhaps start off by doing some volunteer work? It would get you out of the house and meeting new people. Cheating husbands take so much away from us.
Stay strong and remember you are the better person. Thinking of you.
Anna2612
Anna2612
Forgiving him meant that i have accepted the fact that he is and no longer will be a part of my life, forgiving meant that i deserve someone so much better than him and forgiving him meant that he does not and did not deserve my love.

Thank you for the messages it means alot, being cheated on and left is one of the hardest things a person can encounter and experience i am happy i joined this group sometimes a simple kind message is all we need to stay motivated and keep focused.