Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm new here , my baby just said he don't want me living here with him in what was our home anymore. He's such a beautiful man we had our problems but we always worked through them, except when I messed up I broke his trust..I didn't cheat or have any intention of that nature, but he took what I did as a sign of carelessness. I didn't think about his feelings that's true.. anyway now I have been triggered my depression has kicked in..I feel like I lost the only thing that mattered..now I can't get out of bed , I go outside and can hold it together until I breakdown, I can't stop thinking about death, I want everything to stop the pain, the anger, the tangled web of symptoms related to depression. Me and him are friends he wants to go back to that so I can rebuild his trust so it's not as hopeless as my depression makes it feel, deep down ik we will pull through this but rn my mind can only focus on the negatives.
I'm glad that you are taking a stand at trusting others for tips. I know that if I'm ever in a position for advice, I hope that you are nearby as a sounding board. New member and all the wisdom you bring with you, welcome!
Perhaps your baby just needs his space for awhile. Obviously, there is something interesting him enough to need alone time. And it could be that the way he sees carelessness is pressing his mind & he needs time to plan a course of action. Then if you've worked things out before, this could be the breaking point of his patience, so, instead of keeping you inside the home, he's fixed on the idea of freedom, which is a compliment to you, because being nearby to your voice has softened him before now. Yet the situation now is increasingly confusing for both of you. So try not to see this as the death of your relationship. It's only astray for a time of radical thinking. You can both use restful time now. I agree with you that he needs time to rebuild his trust in your friendship. I can tell by how you see his character that he really is the glitter & glamour of your shared love. :-)
Remiah இ>--;---༊ ༃ Best to each of you!!
or, if you haven't committed some major crime of betrayal of trust, if he's just being a giant twat.
I mean I don't know if you forgot his favourite breakfast cereal, or if you threw him out of a moving car. Without knowing that, I can't see anything else clearly at all. It could've bee you being a git, it could've been him.
Give us some facts and we can start from there as to how to proceed. Don't worry, no judgement, just - tactics.