Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
It's been a while since I have been back working to escape the reality of my life and then last ditch effort to save a relationship that is so unsalvagable. I try to take the family on a vacation to California and Disneyland and STBX decides he is going to ruin the trip for the entire family leaving my kids crying at Disneyand.
We decided that we are going our separate ways I am eagerly looking for a place to live I am empowered and anxious and looking forward to moving on with my life, then he starts trying to weasel into my good graces and confuse me aagin. He tells me that he basically wants his cake and eat it to. He lives in his place I live in mine and we can still be together until the kids are grown. What the heck another man that wants me to raise the kids so he can have a life like my ex-husband and then come back to me when they are grown.....I HAVE HAD IT!!!! I just wish I could find a place to live quickly....it's not like they are easy to find. I have reached the end of my rope, everyday constant griping and negativity...he will do nothing around the house he just says he is biding his time until December when he gets his license back then he will move....OH HELL NO!!! Use me until he doesn't need me any longer.
The agony in being in a house with a person that hates and despises you and then uses you is sickening...I don't cry anymore there is no more pain just mere disgust...I have though of just taking the kids and staying at a hotel til I find a place just to finally be over.
We decided that we are going our separate ways I am eagerly looking for a place to live I am empowered and anxious and looking forward to moving on with my life, then he starts trying to weasel into my good graces and confuse me aagin. He tells me that he basically wants his cake and eat it to. He lives in his place I live in mine and we can still be together until the kids are grown. What the heck another man that wants me to raise the kids so he can have a life like my ex-husband and then come back to me when they are grown.....I HAVE HAD IT!!!! I just wish I could find a place to live quickly....it's not like they are easy to find. I have reached the end of my rope, everyday constant griping and negativity...he will do nothing around the house he just says he is biding his time until December when he gets his license back then he will move....OH HELL NO!!! Use me until he doesn't need me any longer.
The agony in being in a house with a person that hates and despises you and then uses you is sickening...I don't cry anymore there is no more pain just mere disgust...I have though of just taking the kids and staying at a hotel til I find a place just to finally be over.
Find a place for your own sanity... Good luck.
I have no advice for you, but here is a hug (((HUGS))). Things changed for me when I decided I had enough and the only one who was going to rescue me was myself. You see strong enough to do that too. I wish you all the best.