Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
me and my partner have been together for over 3 years and me and him have been through so much in such a short space of time. I need help and I don’t know if I’m just being silly but it’s happened on numerous occasions and after a day of hating myself and feeling like it’s my fault I let it go and carry on. Now I know you shouldn’t ever go through someone one and it’s not like I go on when he not there but every time I just look at his recent searches of people on Instagram there are always at least 10 - 15 other men’s pages he has been on all of which are gay and post nearly naked photos of themselves. It makes me feel sick to my stomach and this has literally just happened and I walked out of the salon he owns and just said goodbye he then text me saying why did you go but he knows I seen it because he closes all his applications so I went on and just left it open so he would know I’ve seen it. He keeps ringing me but I feel that sick I can’t even speak to him
to hear about the findings-so goes the saying when you look around
for something be careful because you may just find it. Why do you not
just confront your partner. Now for yourself- be calm and rational because
you can remain cool and calm because if it is meant for you 2 to be together
it is all good if not - if you handle the situation self respecting yourself and
others the Universe assists you to move on- but you have to be willing to release him peacefully back to the universe. Now enough of that because
looking in on Instagram does not mean you are cheating.You can just be
looking at what people are doing its like a curiosity thing.
Soooooo- how will you handle this-- calmly-get your calm on-your calm
confidence- it is important because you want to have transparency in your
relationship which means you dont act like being on Instagram is a bad thing.
You are both adults with free will and you want him to be open forthcoming
and eager to communicate with you so you have the Oh it is really nothing
but what were you checking out on Instagram?- whats the latest on there now? dont act like you are scolding a kid because if he is on there searching for new prospects or what ever you want him in a comfortable zone to be open enough with you. Let us know what you are going to do 3: ; )