Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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lmecklen 05/21/2012

My boyfriend of 6 six years just broke up with me. He cheated on me 3 times and has been clean from heroine for 2 years. I wasnt going to take him back but he went through rehab and a ton of counseling so i gave it another chance. I made a big step and let him move in with me 6 months ago and i really thought he was a changed man. Just last week we had a really big fight (it was something stupid on my part) but he decided that he was moving out. I am devestated over the breakup, i cant eat or sleep. He is still on my cell phone plan and stupid me i looked up his calls and sure enough he is back to one of the girls that he cheated on me with :( The thought of him and her together makes me sick, how could he move on so fast. He never loved me did he?

deleted_user 05/21/2012

In time it will get better I promise. It feels like the end of the world but it's not. I can't say if he loved you or not but what I can say is guys do that, they move on so fast. My exhusband (father of my 3 children) moved someone in two weeks after I left after a 8 year marriage. It sucks but just remember that he found something that is just gonna end. Just move on and find something real.

deleted_user 05/21/2012

i am experiencing something quite similar, just broke up with my bf of five years and i am devestated. of course hes great because he is speaking again to a female i made very clear for years that i was uncomfortable with him speaking with. i had to accept that based on those actions he did not respect my feelings nor the relationship. That is when you have to pick up and move on, because we tend to lose ourselves and our dignity trying to make things work. But spare your feelings. Trust me i know its hard as i am only on a few days progress. But learn to put urself first. Let him do what he has to he will learn the hard way one day. only time will tell. and in time u will heal.

Dave17 05/21/2012

I can't say I approve of what he is doing, but rebounding does not mean he didn't love you.

Often people feel the need to fill the void that is left in their life when someone leaves it... so, in a way, how quickly some people move on can say something about what left that void, and why it is so large.

Other people are just players that didn't care. Only you would know.

utterpain 05/21/2012

Cut off his cell phone.

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