Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I feel like there is this big hole in my heart where he was. I feel so alone at night and during the day I just wonder what he is doing and if he is ok. Did I do the right thing. Or am I just being stubborn.
We are no longer talking other than to take care of all our finances that we took care of together. He is getting ready for his son's wedding in August. Which has him stressed out.
i'm stressed out because I didn't realize I depended on him for so much of everything, right down to eating.
I really love him. In my heart I know I will always love him. I have been back and forth on this for so long, that I feel like a yo-yo.
In reality our dreams were the same, we both wanted the same things in life, but sometimes life has a way of being cruel to you. He wanted a baby, I can't have babies, and adoption is not his option. I would if he would agree. I want all his dreams to come true, and I can't give that to him. He deserves his happiness, as I do also. But together we would have been miserable. And that is what hurts. Menopause sucks....
I hope to find happiness in my future, just working on me, and taking care of my children, I been stressed out with having to do this on my own now. He not there to take them when i can't. But I have done this by myself before, for some reason it seems harder this time. These are my children from previous relationships.
I have wonderful family and friends who are supporting me through this whole sucky ordeal.
In my head I wish I would have never met him, I wish he would have never pursued me, otherwise I wouldn't have to be going through this terrible heartbreak.
If I had it my way I would take him back in a heart beat, but it's too late for that now, I have hurt him too much for him to take me back. He is already on his own, and moving on. I am the only one stuck here in this hole. I hope one day i will be able to breath on my own. Just taking it a breath at a time, telling myself to breath in and breath out. I am in such a depression right now.
Functioning making it to work everyday, putting on a mask, everything is fine, i am strong; on the inside, I am chaos, torn to shreds.
Picking myself up and making myself work, take care of my children, cleaning house, looking at myself in the mirror, wondering why he thinks I am so ugly. not worth his love. Telling myself what I need to do is work on myself. I need to take care of me, and love myself through this. How can I?
We are no longer talking other than to take care of all our finances that we took care of together. He is getting ready for his son's wedding in August. Which has him stressed out.
i'm stressed out because I didn't realize I depended on him for so much of everything, right down to eating.
I really love him. In my heart I know I will always love him. I have been back and forth on this for so long, that I feel like a yo-yo.
In reality our dreams were the same, we both wanted the same things in life, but sometimes life has a way of being cruel to you. He wanted a baby, I can't have babies, and adoption is not his option. I would if he would agree. I want all his dreams to come true, and I can't give that to him. He deserves his happiness, as I do also. But together we would have been miserable. And that is what hurts. Menopause sucks....
I hope to find happiness in my future, just working on me, and taking care of my children, I been stressed out with having to do this on my own now. He not there to take them when i can't. But I have done this by myself before, for some reason it seems harder this time. These are my children from previous relationships.
I have wonderful family and friends who are supporting me through this whole sucky ordeal.
In my head I wish I would have never met him, I wish he would have never pursued me, otherwise I wouldn't have to be going through this terrible heartbreak.
If I had it my way I would take him back in a heart beat, but it's too late for that now, I have hurt him too much for him to take me back. He is already on his own, and moving on. I am the only one stuck here in this hole. I hope one day i will be able to breath on my own. Just taking it a breath at a time, telling myself to breath in and breath out. I am in such a depression right now.
Functioning making it to work everyday, putting on a mask, everything is fine, i am strong; on the inside, I am chaos, torn to shreds.
Picking myself up and making myself work, take care of my children, cleaning house, looking at myself in the mirror, wondering why he thinks I am so ugly. not worth his love. Telling myself what I need to do is work on myself. I need to take care of me, and love myself through this. How can I?
You seem to have your head together babyrena! Maybe it might help both us if you typed out your strategies on how to get by on a daily basis. I am failing at it right now.
I wish the pain would subside, and I could just make a day when my heart didn't ache for him.
my head and my heart are always arguing.
It's actually this support group, and being real, not to the point of an eeyore status, but telling people, I am not doing good, I miss him, and I want him back and I wish he loved me the way I loved him. And usually I get support by being true to myself.
I pray alot, if your not a person of religion, than go to your inner self and do no thinking, just empty out all your innards and be empty for a bit. I am a christian, so I go to my prayer closet a lot.
like I say just telling my self to breath, "inhale", ok I did that now "exhale" i don't want to I feel like I just want to lay down and curl up and cry my eyes out.
But I am blessed with 4 beautiful children, ages 18, 14, 11, and 6, I don't have the luxury of checking out, i have to raise them and put food on the table and make sure they have a roof over there head, and clothes on there back and they hold my hand, and give me plenty of hugs through out the day, and I am blessed with there presents. I get little love notes from them, so they are the sunshine to my blue skies.
My misery loves company so keep the post coming people, i feel so loney today.