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I made arrangements with the x to drop the kids off at our old house, the one he still occupies today. It was understood that I was going there, instead of him coming here like he always did, so I could collect anything left in the house that was mine, or that I want.
I dont think I can do this. I know her stuff is all over the place. I dont want to see it. On one hand, I want to stand strong and hold my head high, but Im not sure if I can.
On the other hand, its just stuff, what do I want with it. I can trust him to get me the things I really want, but then again, I dont know if I can trust him to get everything I want.
Im dying here.
I dont think I can do this. I know her stuff is all over the place. I dont want to see it. On one hand, I want to stand strong and hold my head high, but Im not sure if I can.
On the other hand, its just stuff, what do I want with it. I can trust him to get me the things I really want, but then again, I dont know if I can trust him to get everything I want.
Im dying here.
Hugs to you.
Why put yourself through more pain .
Should you go to retrieve items , be strong, expect to see, her things in the place that once was yours.
Be polite & respectful if he let you in the house. Remember....you do not live there anymore. He has move on and so should you.
I am sorry if I am harsh but I see this as my own saga. One day I will need to be strong when I see my x with someone else. Take care!
I know this isn't made any easier by her harrassing you.
((((HUG)))