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I don't think I should be doing this

vmarshall
vmarshall
The guy that I love broke up with me 6 weeks ago. I'm still pining over him but I agreed to go out on a date with someone tonight after work. I really don't want to go now. I'll still go especially since my former guy is having his annual "Spankstock" weekend party and i'm not going. I want to try to keep my thoughts off of it and how much fun he is having with the 19yr old he is now dating and partying with. I just hope that he doesn't get into trouble.
Is it too early to do something stupid like this?
deleted_user
deleted_user
as far as a date, just reading your words it is way to early. Going out and having fun with no relationship in mind, go nuts, have fun.

For dating, you will be ready when you are ready.
You will be at a point where you will not care what or who your ex is with, you will not be wanting them back, you will be happy with yourself and content being single. Then you will be ready, but as far as a time, only you will know that. Some people it is years, others months.