Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Ok, so I'm new at this but I've come to realize I need some serious help. I can't really talk about this to anyone I know because I don't think they'll understand.
I met a guy about four months ago and we hit it off right away, we had effortless conversations and I really liked him. He said he liked me and that gave me the courage to say it back. He was sweet and caring and he texted me everyday, we had a couple of dates and had very deep conversations.
Things were great between us, he even introduced me to his sister and some of his closest friends and family. Since things were looking up I decided to let go and we slept together a few times.
He always asked me about my feelings towards him and used to say that I was a person anyone could easily fall in love with. I tested the waters and told him that I could really see myself falling in love and us being great together. He said that everything has it's own time and place and that if something were to happen between us, like a bf and gf relationship, it would be the greatest thing ever.
Despite things looking up, suddenly he was uber busy with his job and stopped texting me and as days passed by I decided to text him first. He didn't even answered. And when he did he was really dry and cold.
To make long story short I decided to give up on him until I realized my period hadn't come. At first I didn't even want to think I could be pregnant, but I couldn't shake the feeling off either. I didn't tell anyone about it because I was super scared. So one night I texted him and asked if we could meet and to my surprise he agreed. I went over to his place and found him super drunk, I wanted to leave but I knew this was my chance to get answers.
I asked him if I did something wrong and why he stopped calling and texting. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship and that he didn't want to hurt me or get my hopes up, and that he was sorry for mishandling the situation. I was heartbroken.
I gathered some courage and told him the reason why I was there. When I told him about my fear he was shocked. He had a lot of mood swings, he was shocked, scared, worried, you name it. He hugged me and said that everything was going to be ok no matter the result, he would be there for me. He even said he wanted the result to be positive and that it would be a girl.
The next day we went to the clinic and I got a blood test. The result was negative. I honestly feel naked just by writing this. I was actually bummed I wasn't pregnant but I knew that this is not the time for me and that it didn't mean he would suddenly get down on one knee and propose.
I know it's stupid to grief over a pregnancy scare when you know the father doesn't even want to be with you. It's been a little over two weeks since that day and that was the last time I saw him. I deleted his number so I won't text him but I don't wanna seem childish unfollowing him in social media.
The thing is I miss him so much it hurts. I really care about him and to make it worse I think I'm in love and I don't know how to let go.
I don't know if I portraited my feelings the best way but I actually feel lighthearted. I hope someone reads this and has kind words and advice for me.
I met a guy about four months ago and we hit it off right away, we had effortless conversations and I really liked him. He said he liked me and that gave me the courage to say it back. He was sweet and caring and he texted me everyday, we had a couple of dates and had very deep conversations.
Things were great between us, he even introduced me to his sister and some of his closest friends and family. Since things were looking up I decided to let go and we slept together a few times.
He always asked me about my feelings towards him and used to say that I was a person anyone could easily fall in love with. I tested the waters and told him that I could really see myself falling in love and us being great together. He said that everything has it's own time and place and that if something were to happen between us, like a bf and gf relationship, it would be the greatest thing ever.
Despite things looking up, suddenly he was uber busy with his job and stopped texting me and as days passed by I decided to text him first. He didn't even answered. And when he did he was really dry and cold.
To make long story short I decided to give up on him until I realized my period hadn't come. At first I didn't even want to think I could be pregnant, but I couldn't shake the feeling off either. I didn't tell anyone about it because I was super scared. So one night I texted him and asked if we could meet and to my surprise he agreed. I went over to his place and found him super drunk, I wanted to leave but I knew this was my chance to get answers.
I asked him if I did something wrong and why he stopped calling and texting. He said he wasn't ready for a relationship and that he didn't want to hurt me or get my hopes up, and that he was sorry for mishandling the situation. I was heartbroken.
I gathered some courage and told him the reason why I was there. When I told him about my fear he was shocked. He had a lot of mood swings, he was shocked, scared, worried, you name it. He hugged me and said that everything was going to be ok no matter the result, he would be there for me. He even said he wanted the result to be positive and that it would be a girl.
The next day we went to the clinic and I got a blood test. The result was negative. I honestly feel naked just by writing this. I was actually bummed I wasn't pregnant but I knew that this is not the time for me and that it didn't mean he would suddenly get down on one knee and propose.
I know it's stupid to grief over a pregnancy scare when you know the father doesn't even want to be with you. It's been a little over two weeks since that day and that was the last time I saw him. I deleted his number so I won't text him but I don't wanna seem childish unfollowing him in social media.
The thing is I miss him so much it hurts. I really care about him and to make it worse I think I'm in love and I don't know how to let go.
I don't know if I portraited my feelings the best way but I actually feel lighthearted. I hope someone reads this and has kind words and advice for me.
It's not stupid to grieve over not being pregnant. The potential life represented a whole world of possibilities for you. Try to connect with your friends and family. You might be surprised by their ability to relate to what you're going through.