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I cant belive what i saw

nix192
nix192
I was at a friends today with my daughter and my friend decided to join a dating site for a laugh.As we were going through possible matches who should pop up but my husband who has obviously finished with the OW.And then on his profile he had he was single and has had enough of confrontational relationships.im so angry who does he think he is?Does he not realise that he does loads that make it hard not to confront him.why is it never his fault?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ugh that sucks you had to see it.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There is always one in the relationship that doesn't own up to their faults...it is the other persons fault. That does suck that you had to see it...just brings back the hurt. At least you can say that you are the bigger person. You can't change stupid.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Sorry that you saw this,,but try to not let it stay in your mind. Concentrate on you..not on him or what he is doing...Big hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user
Smart women read "I've had enough of confrontational relationships" and see the red flags. It takes two to argue and he's letting prospective dates know he's no picnic.

People can only make you angry like that if you still care about them. It's hard, but you need to move on. Believe me, I know.
nix192
nix192
Thankyou guys, and jaken yes i did laugh.At one time i said as long as hes not with OW i would be happy but if im honest im no happier,he still dosent want me and i was doing so well i feel like ive been kicked in the teeth again,when will it end?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm sorry you had to see his ad. It sounded a little pathetic, women will read right through it. You deserve much better for yourself. Try to do something nice for yourself, even if it's only painting your toenails! Cute toes always make me smile!
Blindsidedagain
Blindsidedagain
Dreadpirate- Dead on, confrontations are two sided....he won't be getting any hits there!


Jaken-Hilarious response...you are quick witted.
nix192
nix192
I must admit that me and my friend winked at him and then i sent him a message saying Dont i know you, i feel like ive met you somewere before.Yes i know it was a bit childish but ive just gone through my emails and he has browsed my profile.He must have thought his luck was in.LOL