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Rman 08/25/2009

Every day and night I am haunted my my past. I battle demons and carry baggage that is often too heavy to move. The thing that pisses me off about ever getting involved in a relationship, is that now I've got baggage. I'm damaged goods. It was a waste of my time. Having a woman in my life is not worth having to go through the same shit again. From now on, I will only date for beauty and sex...

deleted_user 08/26/2009

I've thought of that plan already... except I call it dating for lust. emotions are too complicated.

we are all somewhat damaged here.. it wasn't a waste of your time if you have two amazing daughters..

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Pfft... I've always been damaged goods. I like to battle, its flippen fun.

Rman 08/26/2009

Exactly. Relationships make people different. Plus...they waste a whole lot of time. Kelly, where have you been? hikerchic, yes I do have two amazing daughters.

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Not just relationships Rman. Events in life can also hinder a person from giving their part in a relationship. This is why we should really take those moments to shed the damage before we move forward. Personally, I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone except with myself.

Hi Kelly!

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Hi, hello, how are ya...

Rman I can't get online with my computer. Sooo.. I only have the BB.

deleted_user 08/26/2009

how damaged could you possibly be. the only thing in the world you can't fix is stupid

Rman 08/26/2009

How damaged could who be, darrin?

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Rman,

I know the feeling... You at least got two daughters outta the shit. All I got was f'd over.

Problem is hottie's are high maintenance. (I tried the only hottie plan right after the divorce finalized... wasn't worth it...)

I just want to find someone who is sweet... And, that accepts me as damaged as I am...

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Why pretty it up and call it dating? Hook ups.

I'm no good for a relationship, I learned that years ago.

Superficial, shallow and meaningless is the best I can offer.

Coz I'm fucking deep that way.

deleted_user 08/26/2009

Rman- since when are people that have been through relationships damaged goods? Baggage? We all have it. It was not a waste of your time. You have daughters? I would kill to to have my kids alive and with me.

Rman 08/26/2009

I've got baggage from before ever getting married. Don't assume that you know everything about everyone...I've got baggage and I am damaged goods. Now I just look for women I find beautiful, so that I can sleep with them...i'm shallow like that too...

deleted_user 08/26/2009

..everyone is going to hate this thread tomorrow....lmao!

here you go, bro. Our new theme song.. ha ha.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyKEcV-66kM

Rman 08/26/2009

kick ass song.
i'm just speaking my mind. fuck em'

deleted_user 08/26/2009

lmao, yup.

deleted_user 08/26/2009

I dont consider myself damaged even though several people on here will disagree. I am just changing the way my life will go because of what happen. I never think of it as baggage.

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