I met a man 4 years ago and I left him I couldn't take the lies anymore. He cheated on me it's been 4 months since our break up they live right across the street from me. A friend of mine saw him on Facebook and he always told me that he never got on Facebook, I never knew this cause he always lied to me. Well a few days ago after my friend told me he was actually on Facebook I saw that he had posted about me in 2013 that he met a lovely lady(that would be me) I have never seen it in 4 years why he would lie to me. 2 days later I got back on his Facebook page and he changed his pictures  (although there were never any pictures of me on there ). He must know that I am again on Facebook cause he didn't like me talking to anyone or having any friends so I stayed off Facebook for him. Anyhow my God I was well not jealous of him he's really not that attractive, there pic is disgusting. She has no hair, meaning she wears wigs and she looks so old. He looks like he is 60 and he's going bald and his hairline has receded. I am thinking drug use. I literally paced back and forth through my house just going ewwwww over and over again. I may be 50 but I look 40, why would he leave me for a older woman with dentures and is going bald? Well he is gross also, and here I actually thought she was prettier than me. Turns out she's gross and I am not saying that looks are important because I did love him for who he was in the beginning. I am glad I am away from him, I know I can find someone better. I am just not sure why it's taking me so long to get over this relationship. I am in therapy, but its like I don't have enough time to talk. I am just trying to get over the fact that he cheated on me and lied to me.I am a good decent person and what he did to me was wrong. I did block him on Facebook I just don't care anymore what the idiot does. My question if anyone can answer for me please, why if I broke up with him does he keep playing mind games and messing with my head? Another question I really never been on Facebook, why are there no pictures on her Facebook page? Please I need to know.