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Just had another blow up with the stbx. He is so hard headed and only sees things he wants to see. He says he didnt want to go to counseling with me in the past because he was afraid I might leave him again.
He says it is all my fault because I left him. I am the only one to blame for "ten years of marraige down the drain."
He says he is the victim. He says he hates me. He says...blah, blah, blah!
I am so tired of him making me feel so f-ing low and not worth a damn! I did leave him, and for what I think are good reasons!!!! He takes absolutely no responsibility for this marraige ending.
It really pissses me off that he wont open his eyes to why he hurt me. I hurt him, he didnt hurt me. He could never hurt me! Oh no, not him, he is the nicest guy in the world!
BULLSHIT!
He said NO to me more than once this past summer and that hurt! I was his WIFE!!!!! Yeah, I left him, but I thought there might be a chance for us to try again, but he said NO!
Well, for some time I have been ok with that. Its just when we get into these pissing matches, because I constantly try to get him to see what went wrong. I know no, as of today, I never will.
I know now, as of today, I AM better off without him. I know now, he will NEVER change.
The house is in foreclosure, AGAIN! The bills arent paid, as usual.
I Am glad I am not with him any more, but that doesnt mean it doesnt hurt.
Now I get to fight him in court for custody of the kids. He wants 50/50 and I want full. I say he wil never get it, not with his financial history, AND the fact that they live with me and I make all decisions for them anyways.
Sorry, I really just had to vent. I really, really did.
Thanks for listening.
He says it is all my fault because I left him. I am the only one to blame for "ten years of marraige down the drain."
He says he is the victim. He says he hates me. He says...blah, blah, blah!
I am so tired of him making me feel so f-ing low and not worth a damn! I did leave him, and for what I think are good reasons!!!! He takes absolutely no responsibility for this marraige ending.
It really pissses me off that he wont open his eyes to why he hurt me. I hurt him, he didnt hurt me. He could never hurt me! Oh no, not him, he is the nicest guy in the world!
BULLSHIT!
He said NO to me more than once this past summer and that hurt! I was his WIFE!!!!! Yeah, I left him, but I thought there might be a chance for us to try again, but he said NO!
Well, for some time I have been ok with that. Its just when we get into these pissing matches, because I constantly try to get him to see what went wrong. I know no, as of today, I never will.
I know now, as of today, I AM better off without him. I know now, he will NEVER change.
The house is in foreclosure, AGAIN! The bills arent paid, as usual.
I Am glad I am not with him any more, but that doesnt mean it doesnt hurt.
Now I get to fight him in court for custody of the kids. He wants 50/50 and I want full. I say he wil never get it, not with his financial history, AND the fact that they live with me and I make all decisions for them anyways.
Sorry, I really just had to vent. I really, really did.
Thanks for listening.
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I hear ya...I hear ya! :) Vent away....(It sounds so familiar!) Oh, maybe that's because I've said & felt the same thing! :) Hang in there! You ARE better off.
deleted_user
I never left my husband and I probably never would have no matter what he did to me. Since he left me I have realized that I am better off and I look forwarding to making it on my own with my children. My husband also wants 50/50 custody but he has no good financial history to speak of. We have moved many times because the rent was not paid. We have also moved in with my parents many times also. He is now leaving with his mom and of course his girlfriend is living there too.
deleted_user
This is the place to throw it all out there. I am sorry for all the anger and pain you are feeling. Someday he will open his eyes and realize what happened and when that day comes you will have the last laugh. You deserve better than that. Life is to short.
deleted_user
My wife and I are actually getting along overall despite all the pain. We are both trying to get through this but I know your frustration too. She's leaving me but at times it seems like she wants to come back and if so it is only because we both have kept our heads and calm, most of the time through all of this. It is the toughest thing I've been through and things can get out of hand very easily. the best thing I can do is give her space and respect her despite how hard it is.
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