I am so angry that my ex husband contacted my younger son who is 20 yrs old and lives with me. He contacted him after almost 2 yrs of our breakup. We are divorced. I just found out last nite. I am so bitter for what he had done to me and us as a family that i wish i had the power to separate him from his kids but i cant do it. I knew the day would come when he would have conversations with both our children. As angry as they felt when he walked out on us for his first love they have past the angry stage and now are in contact. Somehow i felt betrayed by my younger son who lives with me and I should not feel this way. I spoke to my son last nite and told him i did not expect him to hate his father. That my issues are my issues and this has nothing to do with him as a son. But yet i was and still am upset that they have contact with their father. Why am i feeling so angry? Why doesnt he live us all alone. He was never a great father to them when he was here in their lives so why does he care now to have contact with them from afar? I SO HATE THIS.