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Ok... this is a bit of a long story... most of you know about my ex walking out a little over a year ago.... well, my sister had an affair on her husband of 20 years this past October & I have had an extremely difficult time dealing with it as it brought back so many emotions... & of course, she has blamed everything on my brother in law & I heard the exact same excuses that my ex used....
Well, tonight I was talking with my brother in law & was actually telling him about DS because he is going insane & I know exactly what he is going through. He told me that my sister had called my ex months ago & had a great little chat with him... She asked him if he had been having an affair & he told her "no"... She believes him!!!!! Of course he is going to tell her no... he wont own up to it with me & he would believe it would get back to me eventually....
I am so fucking angry right now.. I feel that not only has he betrayed me, now the person who I was very close with has also betrayed me..... I so want to fucking hit something right now!!!!! I'm sorry... I need to vent!
Well, tonight I was talking with my brother in law & was actually telling him about DS because he is going insane & I know exactly what he is going through. He told me that my sister had called my ex months ago & had a great little chat with him... She asked him if he had been having an affair & he told her "no"... She believes him!!!!! Of course he is going to tell her no... he wont own up to it with me & he would believe it would get back to me eventually....
I am so fucking angry right now.. I feel that not only has he betrayed me, now the person who I was very close with has also betrayed me..... I so want to fucking hit something right now!!!!! I'm sorry... I need to vent!
Let them believe their lies and live in denial.
Deal with your own life...handle your anger...don't give them the pleasure of you losing it.
I do believe in karma btw.....they will get theirs.
be well.
My sister would like to have five minutes alone to "talk" with my stbx. I don't think he'd be feeling very good when she left~lol.
Hugs, Pam. Vent away. Breathe, breathe, breathe.