Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am not sure why I follow up on my ex bf but I do. Great he moves a new gf in his trailer, he lives across the street from me. I gotta see it everyday. Those 2 being so " HAPPY TOGETHER " I think I hate the damn lies he told me after 4 years of "I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BABY DOLL! He tells me that I met a girl online. When in reality they actually work at the same place, found that out today. Why was I so stupid? I lived in this neighborhood for 40 years and everyone asks me why you are not with your bf. I mean a divorce is a divorce, I am divorced , I am not sure why this bothers me so much. Maybe because I was lied to. I kinda just wanna walk across the street and bash his face in, but I can't. I have 2 kids and a granddaughter, that's what stops me. I refuse to move out. I live too close to my kids and granddaughter . I know it sounds stupid but actually for a 50 year old woman I look good. I have good traits, my mom looks just like me, my daughter looks just like me and my granddaughter looks just like me.
I copied this from the internet somewhere after I found my husband had an affair. I keep it ony phone, make it your background if you have to, but remind yourself of this everytime you feel bad. It is him, not you.
Also, look up divorce buster 180 for tips on how to manage yourself after a break up. That helped me a lot too. Keep posting your feelings so you can get them out and not boil over. Good luck. ❤️