Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Thursday we get a dissolution. I am going out of my mind not wanting this. I can't breath and really down. I cant get anyone to listen that we are making a big mistake. Son and his step father won't forgive each other and killing me in the process. long story but how do i make my heart and head heal. Been 1 yr separated and me praying to bring both back together. Son hurt my husband and my husband wont let the boy be independant and non loving. He doesnt want a father, just a step father. I made huge mistakes in letting my boy get away with things, i am paying with my marriage. My husband will not continue with counsling, he listen to reply and not listen to understand the man sorry. He is 22 now and doenst want to live at home for college. My husband tried to keep him home to save money. I try to tell my husband he is independent and dont need us except for loan help. I try to get my son to understand he loves big families. sorry rambling. Need help bad. hurts so much. Husband has not contacted me, i keep it going. His girls are done with my son. God help me.
Have you considered your alternatives? Your situation is complicated and has been going on for awhile. So, there is probably not a quick fix. Since talking face to face to a trained professional might help, have you considered continuing with individual, possibly Christian, counseling? Have you considered support programs such as Celebrate Recovery, which deals with issues like yours and is often offered through churches? I would encourage you to keep praying and reaching out to others! Praying for you!
You're allowing your son ,& husbands issues to effect you and you don't seem to have coping mechanisms