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When I was in my relationship, I wanted out of the relationship. It was comfortable there at the house we co-owned so I lingered. Then 10 days ago she told me she was seeing and falling for someone else. Now I'm freaking out. Completely.
I don't understand. When we were together it was not a good relationship at all. We barely saw each other even though we lived in the same house because of "schedules". I used to have fantasies of winning the lotto and just leaving her there in the house. I resented her not really loving me as much I loved her and I punished her for it by ignoring her.
Now she has this new guy. At the very beginning of the news I looked at their message threads and saw they are very into each other. It reminded me of how she and I started.
I know my relationship has been destroyed. I get that people have the right and duty to be happy. But I am so obsessed with them? I didn't want her when I had her, why am I so upset that she is now gone?
But this post is moot now. We own a house together and she is buying me out. I asked her for one more try and she told me she can’t love me the way a wife is supposed to love a husband. So I think I have more than the amount of data I need.
She was crying when she told me that so I think it’s real, she is having serious issues with it.
She probably is going to move her boyfriend in as I think he is rich and is helping her with my price.
But my sensing she didn’t love me as much as love her goes back years.
I think I’m still at in denial because I am unusually calm right now. I don’t know.
Thanks for asking.