yep that is correct a "star" in a movie, my own movie as we all are. I read a book (stop laughing, blondes can read) called the 4 promises. Banker actually gave it to me. It was life changing so I thought I would share just a bit. It explains we are all the producer, star and director of our lives (our movie) and we cast others to play certain roles in "our movie" only problem is they don't have our script they have their own scrpit for their own movie. We don't understand why people don't see things the way we do or act the way we want them to act but this explains it. Everyone sees things from their own movie plot and reads from their own script. When I understood this I stopped taking things so persoanlly. Most people didn't even know the role I picked out for them to play so how could they get it right? Nor do I know the role they planned for me in their movie? The four promises we need to keep with ourselves are: 1. Make sure your words are the truth always, 2. Don't take things personally (people read from their own scripts) 3.Do not assume things (each has their own movie plot so we do not think alike)4.Always do your best (let your star shine brightly). Sounds simple but if you think about it and understand it it can be life changing! Banker said it would be and he was right! Thoughts??? It was profound in my movie anyway!