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So it has been 4 weeks since my former fiancee told me to pack my stuff and my cats and get out no explanation except to say his doctors suggested it stating that my legal battles are causing him stress and I may cause him to have a heart attack and are invoking his ptsd.
I don't know what to believe except that if I could only turn off the emotions I feel I could cope so much better. For weeks I barely ate or sleep and I seem to cope much better< now the thoughts keep racing through my head.
In reality I know I will ever know the exact details unles he tells me and he is not known for his honesty when he is in a bind. So any suggestions on how to go numb again so I can move forward quickly and pick up the pieces of my life fast.i have been unemployed for six months and I need to desparately find a full time job and a second job< I have been living off savings, In cda and in Alberta specifically the economy is very bad and I have. Mortgage car loan credit cards etc. Any suggestions would be helpful thank you
I don't know what to believe except that if I could only turn off the emotions I feel I could cope so much better. For weeks I barely ate or sleep and I seem to cope much better< now the thoughts keep racing through my head.
In reality I know I will ever know the exact details unles he tells me and he is not known for his honesty when he is in a bind. So any suggestions on how to go numb again so I can move forward quickly and pick up the pieces of my life fast.i have been unemployed for six months and I need to desparately find a full time job and a second job< I have been living off savings, In cda and in Alberta specifically the economy is very bad and I have. Mortgage car loan credit cards etc. Any suggestions would be helpful thank you
I also prefer the numb to the anguish, but I don't think we can heal that way. We must face our pain, endure it, until somehow it begins to have less power over us. I personally stay busy and try to find small successes for myself to achieve. For example, I just cleaned and sterilized the laundry room in our house. It has been tolerated over the years, accumulating dust bunnies I am truly ashamed of. This has been my war room. I cannot count the prayers I've made for my marriage and family in this room. I cleaned it = win.
Now to find the next win.