Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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RylieMichelle 05/19/2012

You know, when you really miss someone who's horrible for you. (Like for me, it's because he's an abusive drunk who's tried to force sex on me.)

How do you make it through those nights? They happen to be around 7 or 8 pm when the sun's going down.

I usually just run around listning to my favorite bands. What do you do?

cmshinn 05/19/2012

Call a friend or take a walk while listening to my favorite songs. My daughter will not walk with me any more because I get into my music and dance right in the middle of the street. Guess what. It's a blast not to care what others think either. Lol!!!!

ChiTownBear 05/20/2012

Good for you for getting that person out of your life and sticking to it.

I'll usually mope for a minute then start to dislike feeling that way so I'll do anything else. Grab my iPod, dog and head outside for a walk or drive. I'll clean or fix something around the house or my car that I have been wanting to. Or just putting on a funny movie or show.

deleted_user 05/20/2012

Go out dancing, take ride with friend on motorcycle, ride my bke on trail, etc. One night I was going to wallow in the pain and depression but friend said to at least TRY to go out and have a good time. I went out and I DID have a good time.

deleted_user 05/20/2012

i try to picture what my next love might be doing, where she is at, and where i might be able to run into her.

but, that is not always easy to do. sometimes, i just fall into a stupid sentimental, sad mood.

deleted_user 05/20/2012

I let myself feel it for a little while and then I do ANYTHING to take my mind off of it.

Run, read, watch a movie, build shelves. Anything.

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