Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My latest update...
My home is sold, I have moved into a small condo and preparing for my divorce date next month that scares the hell out of me...
Where am I having issues is the fact I do feel alone and will always be alone now. I constantly feel that I will never find another women like my stbxw. When we first met I knew she was the one, my soulmate and someone I wanted to grow old with and now wants absolutely nothing to do with me.
Now all I feel is self doubt, her leaving me was my fault, I could have done more in the relationship. I blame myself for the breakdown of my marriage. Everyday I get up and try to move on, heal, get to the place that I feel I am myself again.
I can't, I have moments when I feel good but they are few and far between, most of the time I am sad and shut down around the people in my life.
I know I have to love myself in order to let love in from others and maybe even one day find someone that will want to share their life with me.
How do you get there.....
My home is sold, I have moved into a small condo and preparing for my divorce date next month that scares the hell out of me...
Where am I having issues is the fact I do feel alone and will always be alone now. I constantly feel that I will never find another women like my stbxw. When we first met I knew she was the one, my soulmate and someone I wanted to grow old with and now wants absolutely nothing to do with me.
Now all I feel is self doubt, her leaving me was my fault, I could have done more in the relationship. I blame myself for the breakdown of my marriage. Everyday I get up and try to move on, heal, get to the place that I feel I am myself again.
I can't, I have moments when I feel good but they are few and far between, most of the time I am sad and shut down around the people in my life.
I know I have to love myself in order to let love in from others and maybe even one day find someone that will want to share their life with me.
How do you get there.....
The way you get there is one baby step at a time.
Focus on yourself. Do your own inner work. Find yourself again. Work on your relationship with yourself. You might want to find a qualified therapist and work w/her/him for a little while to help w/your healing process and to rediscover yourself.
A wise therapist once told me that in order to have a happy healthy relationship w/another person, we must first have that with ourselves. She was right on the money!
Please be kind an gentle with yourself. Allow yourself as much time as you need to grieve all of your losses and then rediscover and fall madly in love with yourself! And all the while, do things you enjoy!
~healing hugs~