Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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bamasbabe 03/26/2015

Soon to be ex husband wanted to start a open marriage. To me i though we were happy and we have 2 beautiful girls together. After 9 years i guess he got bored. He said i wasn't enough that he wanted more. Encouraged me to see another man. I did find someone. Not thinking it would lead anywhere and it did. Stb ex had found love in multiple women. I found myself falling for om and i am feeling guilty for it. I don't want to feel inadequate anymore and with OM i don't. I am happier now than ever but why do i feel guilty.

speedy1033 03/26/2015

I guess I don't understand how you can be happier than you have ever been and then feel guilty....well, I couldn't have an open marriage i would feel guilty.

refurb 03/26/2015

open marriage
oxymoron

so so so so so so so so so so sad for your duaghters

AaronSG 03/27/2015

Personally speaking I'd have not one problem in the world accepting things were over. If I was married to a woman and she told me that I wasn't enough for her, and that I should go out and find other women, and she'll go out and find other men................"done"................."deal breaker"............."bye bye"!

If ever a woman poises me the option to have some sort of "open relationship"......I'm out of there, no need to "accept it's over", to me it already would be!

Monogamy for me is the only way to be!

onmymind2000 03/27/2015

To be honest I think your post sounds like a joke and you're spamming.

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