Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am feeling better but the pain is still there. When does it leave? He's moved to the next town over and gets the kids sometimes. I get out and do stuff and try my best but the pain follows me around. I have two friends that call to check on me and that's it. How is it so easy for him to be away from us?
are often deep Seated problems on both sides.
Thats why the wisdom to keep working on yourself
So you can heal and grow regardless of what he
Does or doesn't do.
Many believe it will all just go away, it didn't with me.
Grieving just brought on all kinds Of misery, feelings
and emotions That needed a place to go in a healthy
fashion. It also brought on all my abandoment, rejection
and Betrayal issues. Those are huge hurdles that do not
Disappear by sheer will power alone.
You are just at the beginning and it is a bad place to be,
I burdened my support system after awhile. Thats why
Support groups, therapy, church all help. HUGS
85% or more of the marriage was good to her....but she said I did not "get her" even though I was patient, wanted to help and would listen. When she developed her affair with a friend who also suffered depression I think in her mind she found someone who could "understand her" therefore, she found the 15% which in her mind was missing. Point being, I think they forget the majority of the good and only focus on what is wrong and would rather just leave than actually have to work at it.