Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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How I think this group works

Rman
Rman
From my past experience on this board, I see this as a support group forum for those who have gotten fucked over in a relationship.

To benefit from this place, it helps to post in your journal, post thoughts on this main board, send messages and give and take hugs...

The more you talk, the more feedback you will receive. Also, the more you talk, the more time goes by...time works...

Joking is not bad either, as this provides a diversion to the sadness that is here...

I just felt that I needed to provide some feedback to the board that helped me...
LKess
LKess
Post, vent, commiserate, relate, and do what you can to find a smile here and there.
Rman is wise.
Rman
Rman
fuckers...
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nabbing is an art form....
Rman
Rman
4
LKess
LKess
7
LKess
LKess
FOCK!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are just getting this now? How long have you been here?
deleted_user
deleted_user
telling your story and feeling heard -- priceless
deleted_user
deleted_user
Totally agree Rman
Rman
Rman
I saw about 20+ posts yesterday, from new people, who appeared lost. One even asked how this site is supposed to work. In response to reply 7, yes I'm just getting this now. Perhaps if you took the time to read other posts and respond to people in need, rather than just waiting for me to post, so you can take cheap shots, then you would see that there are many people hurting here. Just a thought, as this is a support site, right?
p.s. - I just reported you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Like I said Kessie....an art form....now if there was a keg of beer involved.....

just sayin'.......

miss the old days......
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've often thought, "it would be nice if Rman lived near me." You see. Your such a smart as_. I'm just a smart eleck and have not graduated to your level yet. LOL.
I'm totally serious. It would be fun to hang out with you. Winstom too. My family uses humor to deal with pain. But I haven't got the place in my pain, right now to be able to utilize that humor.
Have a good one.
deleted_user
deleted_user
@ Reply # 10 You are so wrong and why are you watching who I post to. Sounds like you are stalking me. I post in PM because of people like you. Yes there has been several new people on here. Why don't they stay? Also life is not a joke all the time.
Rman
Rman
Why are you posting on this thread, rather than helping the people on the other threads. My intention was to help out some of the people who asked yesterday. Many didn't understand how this group worked and were looking for guidance. That was my only intent. I have never been here for the purpose of insulting people. It's kind of ironic, though, that the people who cried "bullies" are now jumping on the bandwagon, in an attempt to be bullies themselves. I guess they just wanted to be the head bullies all along. Well you got it...have fun...hope it works out for you.
LAC2cali
LAC2cali
Rman - please don't respond to GSCH/Baz or whatever he is calling himself these days. No one here appreciates the nasty sarcasm he posts on threads. Pretend he is on IGNORE - like I do

Thank you for posting this thread - I agree that the new people here need a little focus, direction. Their lives are turned upside down. This should be a place where they can get the support they need (in whatever form, laughter, hugs, sympathy) without feeling attacked.

JMHO