Oh! I know where you are, that first month was the worst for me. Youtube videos about healing a broken heart help me to go through it. I was so depressed, but take care of yourself, eat healthily, try to sleep well, avoid alcohol and similar. The void is there but at some point, you will be able to get out and start to have fun. Try to read about relationships and try to improve yourself. When you are at the bottom, the only way is up.
All the best and you will heal. Have patience.

Hi Healmyheart,
Yes I get you loud and clear.Actually no I do not you have conflicting
statements in the post,
In the beginning of the post u state- I left her,
At the end of your post you stated - She chose to leave me.

Please clarify which it is.

If she indeed did leave you- we send negative messages to the
neurons in our brain as The Leaving"is a Negative event.It is simply an
event that we choose to attach a negative or positive reaction to.
The truth is that If she did break up with you-the break-up Does Not Define
Who You Are or Who you will be, or your future destiny-It simply does not.
It absolutely does not,

You, you you are telling yourself this and not shifting your thought process
to self partner with yourself, release this woman back to the Universe,
send her blessings along her way and allowing for the Universe to pour
fresh light, clarity and Understanding back into yourself to return to
your Natural default of being Wholesome.

Simply put-by you holding on to thoughts that you have lost yourself as she
did not choose you is also revealing to the Universe that you dont want
to release this person(which also releases yourself and lets the Universe
begin to its work to return you to Wholeness and so you can be well
prepared and nourished awaiting your beautiful destiny.

Re wire your brain- to love yourself during this Letting Go process,
It is not a Negative it is a Positive,

Hugs,Positive Vibes always,Positive Energy Always, Stay Up Always.

This all sounds great but how do you re direct your brain? My boyfriend and i are sepereated. He cant talk about his feelings and takes of and runs. He did that quiet a few times. Now my daughter got involved telling him off and thats that now. Since my daughter lives with me we cant reconsider and he gets on his period every couple of month acting like that..Everyone is telling me im better off without him and that hurts i dont have anyone to talk to. We love each other and its hard to have a normal relationship with my daughter here but he doesnt comunicate with me when something is wrong. Im mad at him and my daughter. But it still hurts like hell....i wish there was a pill for this and you just forget everything

Hi Tassunny

What exactly is going on for him to run off like he has several times?for
your daughter to get involved telling him off?,and for you to realize a
normal relationship cannot happen while your daughter lives with you?

What happens before he runs off-?

Is there some bad blood between daughter/him earlier before he left.

Are there lines that he crossed that you consider a dealbreaker in your
relationship?

It would help if you elaborated a little more on details.

As far as REDIRECTING your brain. Firstly you have to come to terms,
come to a place of clarity- not sure you are there yet the reason I have
determined this is only because your entire post is one-sided- you did
not go into any detail regarding your boyfriends stance,his perception,

You cant rewire your brain if there is no clarity and transparency-regarding
everything and all involved.

The only thing that I can say from your post is that if it is routine
that he runs and cant communicate then perhaps the environment
is not conducive for this to take place.

You have to look at why he is not wanting to release details to You.

Is there an aura about You that keeps him withdrawn?

Not sure what is happening until you clarify.............

Hi Osheana,
Thank you for your reply. My boyfriend has some felony charges in his past which is a long time ago, my daughter cant deal with. Thats why they dont get along. He has never done anything to hear but she keeps bringing it up. As far as him he is very insecure and needs a lot of affection. Im the total opposite i need partnership and communications. So i dont show him enough affection and instead of saying something when he feels like that he takes off. My daughter has seen me upset quiet a few times and has a strong temper and cussed him out so now he wont come back until she leaves. Which was the plan anyway that she moves out at some point soon. Anyway i dont eamt to chose now. Between him and her i love them both but if it comes down to it my daughter is my flesh and blood. And i think hell still keep running even if shes not here