Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
A twist of irony: my ex just remarried....
to someone she met on line
i thought he was the cutest guy ever, once i saw him
still do!
well i'm more organised now and won't do that again, besides i'm all grown up with a handag!lol :)
A friend of my sister's emailed me and asked if I was "dating" some time in November. She was dating a guy that was the lead singer in a local band and one of his friends was asking if she knew any single girls. I was like sure, what the heck - never hurts to meet someone. But because of my previous "non-dating winter" edict, I was pretty ambivalent about it. She exchanged our phone numbers - he called me and we chatted a bit, he seemed nice. The band was playing a show that Saturday after Thanksgiving and we arranged to both be there that night to meet and see how things go.
He was very nice, very jovial and easy to talk to. He was buying me drinks all night and I'm a cheap drunk, so I was getting pretty loaded pretty fast. The band started playing and I was mostly drunk and it was loud and I couldn't hear what he was saying so I leaned in closer to listen and he turned his face and kissed me. I was really shocked but pleasantly so. He called me the very next morning at 10 am and I was really shocked at that... I figured I wouldn't hear from him for at least a few days, if at all. We were pretty much in each other's lives from that point on.
In retrospect, there were so many red flags for me during our courting process - things that I dismissed and shouldn't have, but it's easy to do when the blush of love and discovering someone new is upon you. I'm thankful that I didn't marry him like he wanted. I'm glad I stood up for myself and my wants and needs - even though it ended us.
My brother and him are no longer friends! LOL