Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My trust in others has been stomped to nothing. My mom left us after my dad died and wanted nothing to do with us, the man I thought was my soul mate decided to call me after 6 years of being together and said I dont love you anymore, and came home with a massive hickey on his neck just to rub it in. We had plans to go on vacation, we were in the middle of buying a house, and aparently for the last two years he didnt love me anymore. He didnt even try to tell me or try to fix it. Now hes with some blond skinny girl. They have only been going out for over a month, and they are living together and hes happy.
How do you trust again? I honestly dont think I will ever let anyone try to get close to me again because whats the point?? They'll just rip my heart out.
How do you trust again? I honestly dont think I will ever let anyone try to get close to me again because whats the point?? They'll just rip my heart out.
i fell to pieces. absolutely to pieces. my life fell apart. it took me 5 yrs to get better, to become secure, to become happy again, and what happened?
an abuser found me, lied to me, tricked me, hurt me. then he attacked me and left me this year.
now i think the same thing as you. how will i ever trust myself again, never mind someone else.
i think the answer lies in learning to love yourself. once you begin to love yourself and trust yourself, live a positive life, positive people will be attracted to that and life will improve.
if we're positive, healthy in the mind, live a healthy lifestyle by surrounding ourselves with genuine people, a good healthy relationship is bound to follow. i'm sure you must have seen red flags, we all do, and we all ignore them in the name of love.
when the flags present themselves again, dont ignore them.
sending you lots of love!
love yourself!
xoxo
gogo
They're out there. We just need to be more careful and more mindful of who we allow ourselves to become vulnerable to.
XOXO!!!