Yes and sorry..when you are in the thick of it, it becomes hard to imagine better days. But they come and usually not as fast as we would like. Hang in there please

I dreamed about my x constantly for four months straight...which is awful when you wake up every two-three hours... Not only do you get the nightmares...then you get that awful slap-in-the- face feeling when you wake up and have to deal with the living nightmare life has become! It will get better---at night when I lay down to sleep I pray to my guardian angels to have better dreams and relief from my pain--- and it helped. (I'm embarrassed to say that they gave me a crazy dream of Justin Timberlake- whom I am really not that attracted to--in a photo shoot involving presents and a tree and a couch--- yeah reallll weird... But it wasn't about my ex, so I consider my guardian angels a success!). Give it some time and try to recall a story or movie that you like and picture it in your head before going to sleep! Five months and i am now just starting to sleep better...Lots of hugs!

Than ya'll for the support! It helps me get through. Yes all throughout the night there are sometimes dreams where we talk about getting back to gether and weird things. I don't get why they appear. I just feel bad that I take out all my angst on my moms relationship because I want her to spend time with me because I am so lonely now. I hope I am able to readjust.

When I was feeling this way....and we all do at one point or another....someone dear to me said "well, I guess there's only one way to go...and thats up".

It wont last forever. I promise. You will feel better. Keep focused on self relfection and motivation. Take it a day at a time, an hour at a time, a minute at a time if need be. Just do something...anything...to keep yourself engaged in life.

Get out there and join some free groups...some things you may be interested in through your local library or community center. Then keep looking for a job. Being self sufficient is a very powerful thing. Look for a job where you will be in contact with lots of people. Strike up conversations. Smile.

You can do it!

You're not alone winesar, if that makes you feel any better. Hope things pick up for you. Stay strong!

Thank you all :) I am giong to look into doing some volunteering, it's just with ontop of the horrible job outlook i'm dealing with a break up. It just makes things so many times worse. It's like will things ever get better and will the job outlook ever get better. I guess I just need to start thinking positive.

Been there, done that! Still struggling with the work and job stuff, but happily moving forward in all the other stuff.

They say if it is not one thing it is another :-)