Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Lobo 02/17/2017

It's been 7 days since my gf and I broke up, I let my anger get the better of me and I lied to her a lot. Within the 7 days I was homeless, shamed, yelled at, humiliated, starved and finally let go. Within the first two days of us separating she was already getting phone numbers, going on dates and has had sex with someone already. I want to be upset with her but I have no right... I have to live with what has happened.

mirandac 02/17/2017

I hope you are in therapy/support groups to
work on your Own issues. You can not fix or
control anybody but yourself.

Wishing you well on your recovery journey,
getting honest and humble is a big part of
recovery. HUGS

Lobo 02/17/2017

Thank you

speechless1000 02/17/2017

You have every right to be upset! Let it out it's part of the shitty process x

onedayatatimeforme 02/17/2017

I don't know what it is that you may have done in the relationship which lead to this or if it was all her but where you are now is a starting point and I am sure you are upset that she can move on and forward and with someone else so quickly but that is not your fault and not your problem it is her problem that she will have to live with. The best thing you can do is join a support group or therapy or both and start on the healing process for yourself and work through what ever issues you may have . You have every right to be upset but don't hold it in because it will come out sooner or later. Focus on you and your goals and what you want to be healthy and happy . Stay strong

Lobo 02/17/2017

Thank you everyone, I'm trying to stay strong but everyday seems to get better and worse at the same time

mirandac 02/17/2017

Keep reaching out, none of this stuff is easy.

I do hope you have access to therapy during
This time it helps a lot or at least support groups.

There is one way when on rock bottom and
That is up. HUGS

Alone 02/18/2017

Even though you feel so low, try, try, try to take care of yourself. Face whatever the issue is head on so that you can move forward into a healthier place. Take care!

lily86 02/18/2017

I was dumped six days ago. In my case I got so angry that it prevented me to ask him to take me back or the sort of things I've done in the past when I was dumped. Anger has also knocked him down the "pedestal" already... I definitely deserve someone better and from what I read so do you. Fell free to feel whatever emotions you feel and whatever you do never isolate yourself. Talking always helps. Big hug

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