Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Visitor0042 06/06/2018

I can't make him come home. I can't make him want to be here. Pretty soon, he wont be here. Part of me just needs him out so i can face the reality, the other part wants me to tell him to stay. Very small part of me. There is no place i would rather be. Why didnt he want it too?

teerings3 06/06/2018

Being in the same house is the hardest. He is sleeping upstairs while I’m crying downstairs. I agree with you I need him out so this can begin.

Visitor0042 06/06/2018

It is not a reality i want to face, but the sooner the better.
I know how it feels to cry unheard.

Hebrokeme 06/07/2018

I feel your pain I keep asking him to come home. All he says is he can't. Finally told him I won't ask any more. But I was his ride or die. You only get one of those. 21 yrs and he just left. Almost no contact. Really? It's been almost 2 months since he left still feel all the pain as the first night alone in our king size bed. I'm sorry you're going through this agony.

Visitor0042 06/07/2018

I will never understand it. Sorry you are hurting so much :(

teerings3 06/08/2018

Hebrokeme... I’m so sorry you are hurting and feel your heartbreak in your words. I don’t know if we can do this but here is my email if you need to talk teerings3@yahoo.com.

Hebrokeme 06/08/2018

Thank you very much teerings3

foreverbeach11 06/08/2018

I'm sorry you are experiencing this pain. It's hard to know why people make a decision to leave a relationship. I'm not sure of your full situation. Is there a possibility to consider reconciliation? Maybe consider couples counseling to work on the relationship or counseling for yourself to help you cope with the break up. Wishing you the best.

cbhmom 06/09/2018

Selfish that is what it is they are selfish
I pray so hard that god will let my love go for him so it doesn’t hurt so bad
The living in the same house is truly killling me ... he goes out while I’m home with kids and going to work the next day ... I moving the 1st July and although I don’t want this mentally I can’t take the pain anymore. Be strong! Hugs!

Visitor0042 06/09/2018

I suggested counseling for years. He doesnt want to because it scares him. It is more frightening to see someone with me than to keep me.

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